If life is a journey and every outcome leads to another, my dating life is no exception. After a huge dose of rejection (the dark introvert didn't want to marry me), I did a dating detox. I doused myself in self pity, took myself to brunch and forged new friendships with everyone from NY Asian Americans, a man hating dining out group and mature friends my mom's age. Here's a summary of what the last 3 men taught me about relationships.
1. Red Flags Mean You Should Move On
Red flags are NOT the same as Caution Signs
2. Your Prayer Gut Is Right
3. Take Everything To Christ In Prayer
4. Don't Accept or Make Excuses For Bad Behavior
5. Ask Christ to Show You What Isn't A Deal Breaker
6. Passion Doesn't Equal Love
7. Intent Is Shown By Actions Not Words
8. You Should Love A Man For Who He is Today And NOT What You Hope He'll Become
9. Assume The Guy Is Nice Until Proven Otherwise
10. You Don't Attract The Wrong Men, Just A Lot of Men
11. Be Realistic In Your Expectations (Let prayer be your guide. God will show you when this is off base).
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