Last weekend, over Memorial Day, I threw a BBQ at my house. A few people came and someone new but not so new to me. A guy came who invited me to a Halloween party in 2008, only to show up with his female friend! Halloween boy showed up with another friend to my Memorial day picnic! Go figure. He later asked me for coffee. I turned him down tonight. Am I nuts? Thing is, at this stage in my life I want a man who's established in Christ, his career and himself. I want someone that Jesus has made whole. After Halloween boy ate all my food, didn't help clean up (not that anyone else did either) and dissed me 2 years ago, is this who I want? He asked me for coffee. If someone has seen me for dinner, come to my picnic and seen me at Halloween...isn't it time for the man to show some interest? I think a man of God should be willing to be generous with a woman from the start. I no longer have any interest in being on trial for date zero when essentially the man has had enough interaction to decide whether a date is of interest.
Coffee is date zero from the internet. If you'd spoken to the girl...ask her for a real date so you can prove you have your act together. Prove you're a man of honor.
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