How Do I Attract Men? Men Go For Women So Much Less Attractive Than Me.

I think you can attract men anywhere. Being attractive helps but doesn't usually completely "sell" a man on girl friend material. Attracting a man isn't a mystery. It just takes some things: (1) practice (2) being in a place where men are (3) being receptive to male advances and (4) making a man feel great about himself. Here's some tips on attracting a man anywhere:

• Join groups that attract a lot single men (polical groups, church groups, Professional Organizations), you get my drift.
• Even if you don't get a date at these groups, practice talking to men, getting comfortable with men and enjoying their company.
• Say hello to men and women wherever you are (Dunkin Donuts, Starbucks, Dry Cleaner, Line at Supermarket, work).
• Trust me, this will help you open up to strangers. Once you learn to be receptive your chances of meeting someone are much greater. Try it! Within weeks strangers will be speaking to you.
• Make eye contact with lots more people and smile at them (men, women, children -- who cares who?) 
• Wear bright clothing (avoid crazy clothes please). Men are visual and the bright colors will draw their eyes to you.
• If you spot someone you like, get in his line of vision. Then make eye contact, smile, count to five and avert your eyes. You can even mouth hi or do something obvious like waving. If a man is attracted, he'll come over. What's the worst that can happen? He doesn't come over? Then he's gay, married or in a relationship. Hit the NEXT button.
• Thank men for holding the doors, compliment all men openly (single or married). You won't date the married men of course but being liked is a chain reaction. Once one man likes you, the word gets out that you like men. Man likers are a rare breed and most men love them! What man wouldn't?
• Men are hams about compliments. I don't know if they get them infrequently or whatever but most men love being told they're chivalrous, great, good looking etc. Even if you don't get a date, he'll always say you're great!
• Men aren't like women. They overlook a lot when a woman thinks they're hot stuff. Trust me, I see this even with performance reviews. Men go by feelings just as much as women do. They particulary go by how the woman makes him feel about, you guessed it, himself!
• Attracting a man is like an employer seeking to fill a position. We don't tell people NOT to apply. We simply don't interview those we aren't interested in. Same goes here.